How do you measure your personal success?  Perhaps you are only happy with yourself, if you meet the days quota at work.  Success to you might mean making the most money possible in one day. For some occupations, success means arriving back home alive.  Students would call an A+ on a test a success. How we measure our own success could potentially be causing us unnecessary daily stress and feelings of failure …even hopelessness.  Yet, where does it all start? Each evening we go to bed with a mental checklist of things that we think we NEED to accomplish throughout the next day.  Let’s imagine yours looks something like this:…